Before you decide to write your own wedding vows for a civil ceremony, you should contact a civil officiant to make arrangements. Depending on the type of wedding you are planning, the officiant will allow you to read your own vows, or they may require you to read their legal declarations. If you have trouble organizing your thoughts, you may benefit from a vow writing outline. Your introduction should include things such as the reasons you’re getting married and the people you care about most. It’s also a good idea to write a few things about your relationship with your fiance, including the things you appreciate about him or her.

Writing your own vows adds ‘accountability’

Having a civil ceremony is not the only reason to write your own vows. If you have the time and energy, you can make your vows personal to you and your partner. The process … Read the rest >>>